For some people delegating is an easy skill to handle and master. These people are able to assign tasks without so much as a blink of an eye and make dividing work look like second nature. Then there are people who view delegating as a completely foreign concept. When people ask if they can help, the answers they receive are usually variations of the same sentiment. “I can do it myself,” or “No, don’t worry about it,” and these phrases are usually similar. Delegating can be a hard skill to acquire and even harder to master. Brides are especially bad to view delegating as a disease they want no part of. A bride likely has a vision for her wedding and she wants is perfect. That is to be expected. But getting ready for your big day can try even the most organized bride. Delegating tasks for your wedding is a lot easier than you might think. For example – when it comes to your wedding dress, a stylist at Labella Bridal can help make the task much easier than going it alone. If you still have fears about handing off your wedding details to someone else, read below for some tips to help make the transition a little easier.Learning Strengths
Your friends and family members all have strengths. It doesn’t matter if they are goofy most of the time and like to joke around. When it comes to your wedding, more than likely they will show up ready to help and a whole new side of them will come out. You may not know their best strengths and weaknesses until you begin working with them. Once the wedding planning begins it might be a good idea to sit down with your group and go over things. Find out what would be easiest for your friends to do. If one friend has amazing handwriting skills then leave RSVP’s and notes to them. Some friends might be business savvy and have a gift at negotiating. This sort of thing can come in extremely handy when you’re shopping for vendors and accessories. No matter what the strength is, you’re most likely to find a task which will fit your friends perfectly. Don’t look at them as your goofy friend. Instead, consider their strengths and see them as co-workers on this important task.Letting Go
Let it go is a pretty popular phrase these days. Taking a page from the song might also help you learn to release a little control and delegate tasks to other members of your family or wedding party. In your life apart from the wedding you might be able to do it all. If you’re the type of person with endless energy and the drive to do everything yourself, that’s wonderful. It’s a gift and a skill to have that sort of drive. But realize that your wedding isn’t just another task you need to finish in your daily life. Your wedding is something which requires a huge amount of focus and detail to the little things. It’s a task which might not be suite to your skillset. That’s when you have to learn to let it go. Realize that just because you can’t get it all done, it doesn’t mean you have failed. Giving tasks to other people, be it family members or professionals, is a good thing. It will keep your stress level down and give you more time to keep the other parts of your life in check.Be Bold
One odd thing about delegating tasks for your wedding might be the idea of having to actually assign tasks to people. Sometimes your friends or wedding group might not feel it’s their place to rush up and throw offers of assistance to you all at once. If you’re the type to do it all yourself, then friends and family might take a seat until their name is called. This is doubly difficult if you’re a Type A person. Actually setting your desire to do it all aside is the first step in all of this. If you’re embarrassed to do it in person, send a nice card to your chosen friend or family member and request their help with getting everything in order for your wedding day. Sometimes people simply need to be asked to help out. It doesn’t mean they aren’t willing and wanting to help you out. Sure, the idea of going out and having to recruit help might feel weird, but at the end of the day it isn’t such a bad thing. Your wedding helpers will feel like they were truly wanted on board and you will have hardworking help to make sure you get your wedding day just the way you want.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/delegating-wedding/";var hupso_title_c="Delegating for Your Wedding";
Eva Harrison, one of our beautiful brides, has shared some of her wedding pictures with Labella Bridal! We loved helping Eva find the perfect dress for her big day. These shots are gorgeous! We would like to congratulate Eva and her new husband on their wedding, and wish them years of happiness ahead.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/beautiful-wedding/";var hupso_title_c="A Beautiful Wedding";
Your wedding day is a finely tuned event. For months, probably even years you have been diligently trying to get every moment of the day perfect. There is a lot you can control on that day. You can make sure your guests are comfortable and happy. The color of your dress, decorations, and table linens has been perfected to your specifications. Your dress looks amazing and all your bridesmaids are perfect. So while all of those things you can be certain about, there is a whole mountain of issues that can arise on your wedding day. Guests can get lost, stains happen, sickness sets in, allergies flare up, and a lot of other random ‘what-if’ moments. To prepare for that cut shin or Scope on your wedding dress, all brides need an emergency kit packed with the essentials. Below are some tips on preparing your perfect emergency kit and being ready for all the randomness that goes down on your big day.Stain and Rip Repair
Attending a wedding doesn’t automatically make accidents and mistakes stop. In fact, it usually invites them in for a drink and a dance. There is a lot that can happen fashion-wise. Have you heard the story of the bride getting wine on her gown? Or the one about the bridesmaid ripping her dress right before the show gets started? That’s because those things actually happen. One minute you’re laughing and drinking a little wine to calm your nerves. The next you’re dribbling wine down the side of your dress. You’ll immediately panic and then be forever grateful for your emergency wedding kit. In your kit you should always keep miniatures of items you will definitely need. A Tide pen is perfect for getting rid of stains. You’ll also want to keep a needle and some different colored thread on hand for when there’s a snag or a tear. If you aren’t too handy with a needle or thread, there will more than likely be someone in the crowd who knows how to sew decently enough to get your dress back to looking lovely.Lotions and Potions
Your wedding day is a pretty nervous occasion. No matter how much you prepare or how confident you are in everything you’ve planned, there’s still a little side of you that’s nervous for the entire day to go off without a hitch. This can lead to that awkward occasion known as massive sweating. Yes, it’s something you don’t really want to think about on your wedding day. As a bride you are supposed to be the shining example of grace in your beautiful dress. Sweating has no part to play in your big day. Unfortunately your body doesn’t actually know it’s supposed to be on its best behavior so it sweats as per usual when you get nervous. To combat this issue, keep a mixture of lotions and your favorite scents. It will come in handy not only for you, but also for any bridesmaids or family members who may fall victim to the sweating curse. Deodorant, perfume, baby wipes, and lotion are always good to have in your emergency kit.A Snack
This is one item in your emergency kit which you may never think about. Keeping a snack in your emergency makes a little more sense when you consider how stressed out some brides get on their big day. Sometimes in order to have a beautiful dress, you have to be a tiny bit uncomfortable in the process. Purchasing your gown from a specialty boutique like Labella Bridal will help you choose the right gown for your body type, but for some women a gown may still be uncomfortable. Discomfort can lead to nerves; nerves can lead to lower blood sugar and by the time you’re about to talk down the aisle you are feeling a little on the wrong side of faint. A quick snack will help alleviate any worries you might have about getting too hungry while preparing for your big walk. Try to include a snack you really love. It might be a little on the unhealthy side, but a little treat will help you calm down for a few minutes and also keep your blood sugar from dipping too low.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/building-wedding-day-emergency-kit/";var hupso_title_c="Building a Wedding Day Emergency Kit";
All brides know the importance of keeping costs down when it comes to the big day. There are areas where you’ll need to stretch your dollar in order to stay on budget. Flowers, accessories, linens, and even catering can all be managed and shifted to fit your wallet in one way or another. On the flip side, there are also certain areas where skimping and penny-pinching might not be the best way to go. One such area is your actual wedding dress. Sometimes the lowest price doesn’t always mean the best bargain. Getting a hugely discounted dress could wind up ruining your day or even cost you more than if you actually just bought the dress without the bargain. There are several scenarios in which you might want to avoid making the purchase. Below are some of the highlights. Just remember – if it’s too good to be true, then it probably is.Buying off Etsy Without Research
Etsy is crafting heaven. You can go on the site and find anything you want. Earrings made from stones mined near a volcano? The site has that. There is also a plethora of wedding-related items on the site to fit your needs and budget. One of the more unique sections on the site comes in the form of wedding dresses. You can find a huge number of dresses on the site. They range from handmade locally, to beautiful gowns all the way from Paris and Japan. Unfortunately this is where it gets a little dicey. What you see in the picture is more often than not a fake. It might look similar to the dress you get in the mail, but it won’t be the same. It will probably not fit you that well either. Like Pinterest, the photos aren’t exactly what you might end up with. The dresses from other countries are made in mass quantities and when it arrives, you might be a little shocked to find that it either chokes you or falls off of you. Sure, that dress may half the price as the one you found in the store, but shopping on Etsy for your wedding dress is a huge risk. Visiting a boutique, such as LaBella Bridal Boutique in Occoquan, Virginia, is a much better option.Buying a Mistake
We’ve all been there. You see a clearance or damaged rack and it’s almost a knee-jerk reaction to dig around to find out if there are any good deals. A small stain can always be removed, and a tear in a shoe can be hidden by jeans. These are simple mistakes and shouldn’t hold you back from making a purchase. But what about making a large purchase? Buying a wedding dress with a large tear, bad sewing, or a stain could be a dangerous move. If you have someone in your family who works on dresses, or know how to repair, then it probably isn’t such a bad thing. Otherwise you might end up spending a lot of money to have the dress fixed. Dresses, unlike other items of clothing, need to be incredibly specific when it comes to the wearer. If a dress isn’t right to begin with, it may take a lot of time and money to get it to the perfect point. Removing stains from a dress may also be dangerous unless a professional is dealing with it. Buying a mistake might seem logical for your wallet, but consider who you have in your corner and how much time and money you can devote to the repair.Buying From the Unknown
As mentioned, buying from a reputable dealer like LaBella Bridal Boutique in Occoquan, Virginia is advisable. While looking for the best deal, you can often find deals that are too good to be true. These are the sort of deals that you’ll need to avoid at all cost. Shady boutiques or stores can leave you with an ill-fitting dress and nothing else. There have been stories of brides purchasing expensive dresses and being unable to contact the maker, shop, or anyone else in order to have the dress sewn or return it due to it being a mistake. The key to finding the right dress for you and avoiding the so-called ‘snake oil shops’ is by doing the appropriate legwork. Research different shops in your area and read the reviews provided. If the reviews are mostly negative, it might be time to step back. Another powerful way to find the best shop to fit your needs is by asking around to friends and family members. They may have bought a dress from a great store or know someone who did. Either way, getting a solid review from someone you actually know is much better than taking a chance on a bad product.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/get-wedding-dress/";var hupso_title_c="Where Not to Get a Wedding Dress";
When you think of your wedding day the first thing that comes to mind is your dress. It’s the biggest part of the wedding for most brides. For months, even years, you dream of the perfect wedding dress and you obsess about it up until the day before the wedding. Family members and friends want to see your dress the minute you pick it out. Beyond the dress are some other pretty important members of the bridal family. One such item is incredibly important and is often left off the list when it comes to important parts of the outfit. Shoes are the one thing which might seem like an afterthought. You slip them on and, for some brides, nobody ever sees them. But just because they are hidden doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make sure you have the right shoe for your big day. Remember, you have to walk around in these shoes for a pretty long time. Your honeymoon shouldn’t involve limping due to the wrong shoe on your wedding day. Below are some tips on picking the shoe for you.Choose a Shoe for Your Location
We’ve all seen the photos of a bride unsteady on her feet. It might be due to the slick floor she hasn’t had much practice on, or it could be because she’s walking on ground wet from a rainstorm the night before. Whatever the reason…it never turns out well. No bride wants to trip and fall as she’s trying to get down to the front to meet her mate. There is nothing graceful about taking pictures with the front of your gown stained with mud or a huge red mark on your chin from knocking it on the concrete floor. That isn’t something you want to remember on your wedding day. Instead, choose a shoe that’s right for your environment. If you aren’t a bride accustomed to wearing heels then purchasing high heels and trying to talk gracefully on a slick floor will only lead to feeling unsteady the entire day. Heels aren’t ideal for outdoors either. More often than not they tend to sink down into the ground and cause your elegant bridal march look akin to wading through a swamp. Always consider your location when choosing your shoe.Comfort is Key
You don’t realize it until you’re there. You’re up on those beautiful heeled shoes that you couldn’t resist. It’s the day of your wedding and you just can’t wait to show off your shoes to friends and family after the big day. So the ceremony isn’t too bad. The straps are kind of digging into the side of your feet a little…but oh well. They always say beautiful is sometimes painful, right? Success! The ceremony is over and you’re walking down hand-in-hand with your new mate. Congratulations! Dang, these shoes are killing your feet now that you think about it. Maybe you can pop over and give your puppies a rest. Nope. There are pictures to take, guests to talk with, bridesmaids to have fun with, and a big dance number with the love of your life. By now your feet have started to wave the white flag for mercy. It might be a little insane but your wedding day will be extremely hectic. You’ll be on your feet for a large part of the day. That being said, it would be a wise move to choose a show which gives you comfort for your day. Yes, they might not be as slick as those heels are. But at the end of the day your feet will be praising your name and your new mate won’t have to carry you to the car because your feet are howling.The Shoe of Debt
This just might be more painful than wearing an uncomfortable shoe. Some brides go all out for what shoe they are going to be wearing on the big day. Some brides could care less. If you are in the first category then it might be time to sit down and truly consider how much you’re willing to spend on shoes that you’ll probably only be wearing for this day. If you’re willing to stretch your budget, those shoes can be yours. But if you are looking over your wedding finances and realize that spending that much on a pair of shoes is a no-go, then it’s probably best to look at a cheaper option. If you go online you will more than likely find a similar pair in terms of looks for more than half the price of that designer shoe. Just think – that price savings can give you an extra day or two on your honeymoon!var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/choosing-right-shoes-wedding-day/";var hupso_title_c="Choosing the Right Shoes for Your Wedding Day";
Getting engaged and beginning to plan your wedding can be one of the most stressful times in your life. There are a million things to concern yourself with and not a lot of time to focus on your wellbeing. When this happens there are certain parts of your life that can get cast off to the side along with that entire pack of misspelled wedding invitations. This part just happens to be your figure. When the waves of stress begin piling up those boxes of chocolate doughnuts and bags of chips tend to look pretty great in light of all the craziness going on. This can lead to any number of things. Your face might pay the price with a sudden flare of acne. That energy you once had to handle all the plates twirling around in the air suddenly vanishes. The worst side effect this issue could have on you is gaining a lot of weight and finding yourself unable to fit into your wedding gown. Yikes! If this has happened to you, or you want to prevent it, here are some tips to help you get into shape.
Walk The Town If You Are Able To – Why Not Walk Occoquan, VA?
If you have little time to go pump iron at the gym and can’t stand to sit in your living room trying to sweat to the oldies, there is nothing like stepping outside and getting your walk on. Walking for any length of time will burn calories. The speed in which you walk increases your calories burned. For example, walking for 30 minutes at 4mph will burn 150 calories. That’s enough to get off that breakfast of jelly doughnuts! Walking doesn’t just help you to burn calories, though. Walking can also be used to tone and shape your legs and arms. More than likely you have seen people walking and swinging their arms with great gusto as they pass you by. This is a prime example of speed walking and, while it looks hilarious, it can actually help you burn more calories and tone those arms for your wedding day. What bride doesn’t want toned arms?
Avoid The Candy
Stress eating can happen to the best of us. That bowl of Oreos sitting on the counter, jar of jellybeans next to your bed, and your future husband bringing you home candy because he feels it will relieve the stress. It’s easy to fall into the unending cycle of gorging on sweet treats to keep your mind off all those table arrangements and patterns you have to get down pat for the big day. Completely forgoing eating any candy is probably not the best method either. Figure out your happy medium when it comes to all things candy. If you have a small size candy bar in the evening, that’s perfect. If you end up eating half the bag of those small candy bars, that’s bad. Keep the candy stashed away and try to forget about it. Allow yourself a piece every now and then but keep it out of sight and hopefully out of mind for the most part.
Buy Some Cheap Weights
Finding time to go to the gym is going to be pretty difficult if you’re the captain of planning the wedding. You barley have time to sit down for a few minutes much less pack up and head down to the gym for an hour or two. For this reason you should invest in a pair of cheap weights for your living room. These weights can be used even if you don’t quite have the time to sit down and pump iron. Weights can be used while you discuss ideas and plans with your family members, while you’re on the phone with vendors, while you’re looking over plans and notes you have written down, and when you have a few spare moments to sit down and watch your favorite show.
Diet For The Big Day
This tip should be used correctly. Going on a crazy crash diet that is likely to leave you feeling terrible is not going to help anyone. Choose to go with a simpler sort of diet when it comes to preparing your figure for the big day. Stick to eating a lot of fruit and drinking water. Don’t overload on big meals and eat until you are stuffed. Your diet should include smaller meals than you would usually eat that are high in protein and energy-giving foods. Whenever you feel hungry it might be smart to pick up an apple or some celery to knock off your hunger. Going on a diet should not lead to starvation. To keep things in order with your wedding you need to have energy to do so. Keep your diet safe and you’ll look fantastic in your dress!
Contact us a Labella Too for your alteration needs at 703-494-2929. We are experienced fitting specialists, dedicated to giving you the best alterations and tailoring you will find. We are located in Occoquan, Virginia and we have over 40 years of experience in fine custom sewing and alteration of bridal gowns, prom dresses, men’s suits, as well as a host of other clothier services.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/4-ideas-help-get-shape-gown/";var hupso_title_c="4 Ideas To Help Get You In Shape For Your Gown";
One of the biggest days of your life has finally arrived. You’re now engaged and ready to start planning the big day. It doesn’t matter if the big day happens within the next few months or the next year, getting married is full of stress. It’s actually ranked in the top 10 most stressful events in your lifetime. Every bride will handle the day a different way but now and again a bridge might need a little bit of encouragement that her day will turn out well. So below is a simple guide to getting married. Remember these facts during the planning stages and on the big day and everything else should work out fine!
Your Wedding Day Will Be Perfectly Flawed
If asked about a funny story from their wedding more often than not a bride can shoot one off from the top of her head. Usually the story involves something that just didn’t go right on the day or before the actual wedding. They’ll laugh now but at the time it probably wasn’t so funny. Even with all the crazy happenings on the big day most prides, when asked if their wedding was perfect, will answer yes. That’s because wedding days are usually perfectly flawed. The flaws give you something to look back on and laugh about. Maybe the groom was stuck in traffic and found himself late to his wedding day. The bride might have stepped on and tore part of her dress before she was about to walk down. There are a huge number of things that can go wrong on the big day. That’s just how weddings are. Even with all the flaws that seem like they are going to destroy your fairytale wedding, they never do. And eventually they make for some pretty great stories.
Panicking Is Not An Option
If you flip on television then you are bound to run across a show where the bride is having some sort of horrible fit, crying, and panicking. Going online will reveal stories of panic on the big day and during the planning stages that rival wartime panic. This is because a bride tends to learn towards the panic of it all when it comes to her big day. It’s easy to get overwhelmed and feel like the only possible reaction to something is to panic. You’re planning this huge event and you not only want your family to be happy, but you also want anyone attending to have a great time as well. The sense of panic is easy to get overwhelmed with and when things start falling apart the need to panic starts rising. Never fear, though. Panicking about your wedding or on the wedding day will happen now and again. It shouldn’t happen often though. If you spend your whole wedding panicking about this and that it will lead to one big panic attack. No bride looks good while she’s panicking.
Bridezilla Is Not A Wise Choice
It’s pretty easy to slip into the role of Bridezilla. Once you get the ring on your finger it should not automatically give you the power to become a Bridezilla. Sure, it might be funny to laugh at these types of brides on television. It’s not so funny when friends and family have to deal with you during the process of planning your wedding. Being a Bridezilla can also be very detrimental to your relationships. If your groom sees you behaving in the opposite way he knows you to be then it might give him pause. The same goes for your friends and family members. No good friend should be berated and yelled at for forgetting to do something simple. If your friends are trying to help you and they aren’t doing things how you want to them to, take over the job but don’t yell about it. Family members might not be too pleased with how you behave either. One word too far and you might find yourself without any help on the big day.
Slow Down And Commit Things To Memory
You’ve heard it all before. Your wedding day goes fast. Planning the wedding goes fast. Before you know it the big day has arrived, is over with, and you’re on your honeymoon. It all seems to go by in the blink of an eye. As hard as it might be to slow down and remember things, you should. Take pictures, write notes, or even keep a journal I you want to. Remembering these little moments will make things a lot more special when the wedding is all done and over with. Sure you will have weddings pictures to look back on years after the day has passed. Those are immensely important. Yet remembering what came before is also important. You’ll laugh about stressing over some small issue and feel pleased about how it all came together in the end. So commit these small things to memory. One day you’ll want to look back on them and even show it off to your children.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/brides-guide-getting-married/";var hupso_title_c="A Bride's Guide to Getting Married ";
Picking out floral arrangements for your wedding can be a difficult process. You have to worry about a whole slew of variables such as the weather, time, cost, and just about every other thing that could possibly go wrong. No to mention, with thousands of different varieties of flower, it can be hard to make a decision; and it’s even harder to be satisfied with that decision. Here are 5 tips to help you with the selection process:1) Pick the right florist
When picking a florist, try to go around to different wedding planners and see who they often use. Check out references and visit as many shops as you can. See if the florist can work within your budget and if they could provide example bouquets for you. Make sure they can fulfill your order in time.2) Keep your budget within reason
It would be nice if your wedding party could have 10-15 people, but unless you’re willing to spend over $5,000, it’s not the most realistic expectation. Keep the expense down where they can be managed and use floral arrangements only where you need to. Beauty does not have to equal excess.3) Pick a proper date and location
The time of year you plan your wedding on will determine the price and availability of flowers. You’ll pay more for red roses on Valentine’s’ Day; just like poinsettias and lilies during Christmas time. Make sure the flowers you are picking can withstand the climate of the area; some flowers do better in the cold (like the pansy) and others do well in the heat (like the sunflower). Depending on what you colors you picked for the wedding, you may be limited on the variety of flowers you have.4) Have a vision
There are as many themes for a wedding as there are types of flowers. Having a beach wedding? Pick flowers indigenous to tropical islands; like azaleas or Angel’s trumpet. Doing a black and white wedding? Try beautiful white carnations. Think about what kind of message and style you want your wedding to have and plan accordingly.5) Put some of yourself into the arrangement
Your floral arrangement will be much more personal if you find ways of putting yourself and your style into the arrangement. Base you color palette off of your wardrobe. Pick flowers that would complement the style of your favorite designer. The more personality you put into the flowers, the more you will cherish the arrangement.
Picking out flowers for your wedding can be a very stressful affair; but if you take the right steps, it doesn’t have to be. As long as you have a clear idea of you what you want, take into consideration the time of year, do your homework on the florist, stay realistic about your budget, remember to inject a little bit of you into the whole thing; you won’t have any trouble selecting a gorgeous arrangement and bouquet that will stun all of your guests. If you’re smart about and put trust in yourself, you’ll do just fine.var hupso_services_c=new Array("twitter","facebook_like","facebook_send","google","pinterest","email","print","linkedin");var hupso_counters_lang = "en_US";var hupso_image_folder_url = "";var hupso_url_c="http://labellabridalboutique.com/guide-picking-flowers-wedding/";var hupso_title_c="Guide to Picking Out Flowers for Your Wedding";
The majority of the time a bride finds the perfect dress in a ship but she also finds that it doesn’t fit the way she wants it too. Off the rack is never tailored to fit the bride trying it on correctly, and the pins and claps placed on by the shop owner are in no way permanent. A dress from a shop usually needs to be altered and made to fit the bride. Some brides may find that they are more interested in finding a dress that fits perfectly the first time – but unless you go to a specialty shop and have the dress made from you there on the spot, having your dress altered is usually a must.
No matter where you go to get your dress altered there are a lot of things to keep in mind. Do you think you will lose or gain weight before the wedding? What is your budget for alterations? Do you have a timeline for your wedding dress to be completed? All of these are excellent questions. A bride may have found the perfect wedding dress, but if it hangs off of her, or sucks her in so tight she can’t breathe, that beautiful gown won’t be so perfect on the wedding day. Below is a guide to help you work out some of your alteration worries and set you on the path to your perfect fit.
Weight Loss and Gain: As we all know, getting married is a stressful time. In fact, on the Holes and Rahe Stress Scale it is listed as the seventh most stressful event in a person life. Many brides deal with a fluctuation in their weight during the planning stages of their wedding. Stress can lead to overeating and sometimes under-eating due to the sheer amount of planning and work that needs to get done. Keeping that in mind as you find someone to do your dress alterations is a big plus. Working with the tailor or seamstress to judge how much to take in, or out, the dress will save you money in the long run.
What’s Your Budget: Some brides may not realize that alterations can end up costing the bride quite a bit of money depending on where they go. This is where you need to step into the role of the frugal bride. Check around at different shops for discounts. Some shops may offer you discounts if you bring in your entire wedding party to get their dresses altered. Now and then you’ll find a wonderful seamstress who has done a ton of brides that doesn’t charge a lot of money to have your dress altered. Ask family members and friends if they have heard of any good shops around to take your dress to. More than likely someone has heard of a good place to go and you’ll be able to go that won’t be too expensive. Try and set a budget for your alterations and stick to it if at all possible.
Remember Your Timeline: More than likely you have heard the horror stories of dresses not being done in time. There are even stories about overwhelmed brides forgetting to pick up their dress before the shop closes. These are all things that can be prevented if you have a solid timeline in place for your alteration expert to review. Working with them to plan exactly when the dress needs to be done by, saving room for any issues that might happen, will save everyone the stress of not having the dress finished on time. It is recommended that a bride have their alterations finished one month ahead of the wedding so there is wiggle room in case something needs to be fixed.
Find Someone You Trust: Just as with finding your wedding dress, finding someone to do the alterations is just as personal. All brides should keep in mind that you will be seeing this person several times and they will be an integral part of your wedding day. You should first and foremost find a seamstress or tailor that will fit your budget and also that you can easily explain things to. You’ll need them to understand the exact look you want from your dress. Having a seamstress or tailor you trust to help you get the exact fit you want will mean all the difference on your big day.
Following these steps will ensure that your wedding dress alterations are on track and on budget. Finding the right alteration expert might take a few tries but at the end of the day when you find the perfect person it takes a major stress off the bride.
Contact us a Labella Too for your alteration needs at 703-494-2929. We are experienced fitting specialists, dedicated to giving you the best alterations and tailoring you will find. We have over 40 years of experience in fine custom sewing and alteration of bridal gowns, prom dresses, men’s suits, as well as a host of other clothier services.
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Planning and attending a wedding is one of the most stressful events a person will go through. Although it is also one of the best events, so taking the good with the bad exactly sums up the process of planning a wedding. Most of the stress will fall upon the bride and groom as they deal with relatives, making sure everything is finished, and looking ahead to starting out their life together, there is also a major stress that is put upon the parents. For most parents, involving yourself in planning the wedding will be a natural duty. Brides often revert to asking their mother for help and for their opinion on a variety of matters from place settings to where colors her shoes need to be. Parents are also often on the receiving end when it comes to stress boiling over. A bride, and grooms for that matter, will seek comfort or to vent upon their parents when things have begun to go wrong with all their plans. For this reason, parents too need support and advice during the process of planning and enduring a wedding of their son or daughter. Below is a collection of compiled tips that parents may need, or at least they may need to take a look at after things go downhill during the process.
Communication with the Other Half: This is a step that most parents aren’t familiar with. Ether one side is in charge of everything, or the other side handles the majority of tasks. Even if this is a factor in your son or daughter’s wedding, keep in mind that being cordial with the other parental-half can put both sides at ease. Plan a small dinner with the other side of parents and get to know them at least on a general basis. There may not be any further meetings with them, but a single meeting to show your united love for the happy couple, and willingness to combine families, will make things a little easier for your son or daughter.
If You Pay for the Wedding…: Paying for the traditionally falls upon the parents of the bride. Because of this, you might find yourself wanting to offer your input a little more than you usually would if the bride were paying for it herself. This is easily understandable and can be remedied by some strong communication with your daughter. Sit down and talk to her about your thoughts on the wedding and how you would like to see if be done, and then listen to her desires. Get a notebook and write down the items on the list that you can both agree on. If your budget doesn’t include some of the things she wants, ask her if she would like to pay for some of these items. Or, if she wants a smaller wedding while you want a grander event, talk things out and see if she would allow you a little more freedom in making her day special. At the end of the day, you may have to compromise a bit more. This is her day, after all.
Learn to Deal: For some parents, the stress of the day can be a huge burden that’s liable to explode at any moment. As a parent you have to deal with helping your son or daughter, while also seeing them become more independent and, at the end of the day, letting them go off to start their own life with someone else. For this reason, amongst a lot of other reasons, learning to deal with whatever comes along, and letting it go, is a very important lesson for parents to take to heart. You won’t always agree with what you child wants. Arguing them down won’t help much in the grand scheme of things. Resentment before the wedding is definitely not a great idea. Getting along with everyone during the wedding is also important to remember. There is likely to be someone attending that you dislike. This is natural. Exchange polite greetings and then moving on is the most efficient way to deal with this issue. Learning to deal with all the rough points will allow the wedding to go far smoother than if you jumped on every distressing point.
Simply Be There: This is the easiest tip to give to parents. Just being there for your son or daughter is the most important role you can play in the entire wedding. Help when you’re asked to help, comfort them when things go wrong, and be happy and joyful when the big day comes. Being a parent instead of a teacher or instructor for the day will help them know that there is a steady place they can turn to when all the planning gets to them. Being a parent and being there for support is exactly what you need to do during the planning and wedding.
Not every wedding goes as planned and there will be times of stress on all sides. Learning to communicate effectively and calmly with your child might end up saving everyone a lot of stress. Always remember that planning a wedding is a tense time and a little compassion and understanding can go a long way.
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